Sex and Fat People

Sex is an interesting topic. Some people want to place it on a pedestal, some want it like rabbits, some think it is something that must wait until marriage, some think that it is better when involving chains, bondage, and other odd toys, some like it rough, some like it soft, some hate it, some like it in different holes, some are afraid to talk about it, some hide from it, some bask in it, and so on and so forth. Sex in my opinion is a splendid occurrence, or at least most of the time it is. There are times when people make the mistake of sharing this sex thing with the wrong person. Sometimes it is hard to say no even when your mind is telling you repeatedly not too. Most people tend to make too much of a big deal out of sex and the things leading up to it. They go into it for the wrong reasons and then expect it to still be held up high as if virginity is godliness. I once knew someone who I will merely deem as naive person #1. They built up this grand image of a loving relationship with a long future full of commitments within a matter of weeks of knowing someone. This is extremely unhealthy and is one of the reasons we have so many people bitching about their problems with life, love, and happiness. To some extent I cannot blame the person because it is human nature to want to be loved and nurtured, but this should not be exposed until there is a mutual grounding for such things between both parties. A lot of people make this deadly mistake and they end up hating the other person for it when they should actually turn the hate back on themselves. Everyone makes choices for their own personal benefit and occasionally for others, but no one ever wants to take the responsibilities that come from making choices. Everyone wants to blame the other party for making their life hell when in all actuality their life is hell because they so choose it to be. You can always stop yourself from being somewhere you don't want to be, well at least for the most part. There are always scenarios that can trump this like war, rape, murder, etc., but disregarding those a choice is made. When sex is done with the right person it can be one of the most rewarding experiences out there. I don't think many people ever get to understand this form of sex. I always here about people complaining about sex. Whether it be because it wasn't with the right person or because it sucked sex seems to be an issue with many people. Perhaps a lot of the worlds problems could be solved if people had more frequent better sex.

People are always afraid to address the ugliness in their life mostly because in America we are cultured not to unless it is through some whiney form of complaining to others that gets people no where. Complaining and gossip are the lowest forms of communication. They serve no good purpose that I can think of.

Fat people hate it when they are told to be healthy. For example just the other day I was watching an episode of the Tyra Banks show....(shut up you would not change the channel if you heard the words"these women have two vaginas")...and on this show Tyra had many overweight women on her show and she juxtaposed them with women that were in shape that were disgusted by fat people. The show was sympathetic to the fat people. Many people in the audience got up and told the severely overweight women how beautiful they were and how they were normal and that the fit women were just shallow bitches for addressing their weight issues. Many of the "fit" women were concerned relatives and friends that were trying to talk their fat friends into excersizing and eating right for their health, but they were the bitches because they used harsh words to motivate the fat women. This is a big problem, or at least I feel that it is because we are culturing a society that encourages that everyone is beautiful. This is not true, and this does not only apply to body weight. You see the same things with flattery used with unintelligent people and many other things. It's just not right. Actually it's just a big fat pile of steaming bull shit. This world is encouraging people to bitch about themselves and their flaws while doing nothing to improve themselves or society, but the world is discouraging outside aide with peoples flaws. This is not good.